To move or not to move

Today I have a big descion to make. I love my mother dearly god knows I do, but sometimes she can be a b****!. She doesnt agree with me dating the love of my life Chris McElroy, she says I can do better. She's all the time worrying about material things instead of the real things. What can I say she's a computerohlic and thats not lie! She is more concerned in having a boyfriend or talking to guys or friends than me. My dad on the other hand cares for me, im not saying my mom dont because she does just not the right way. Yes, she provides food, housing, care, everything a good mom should but I dont know . She dates this guy, which not many people agree with the fact she is, being shes only been divorced 4 months. Well, this guy has got her sprung, I mean my mom bends over backwards for this guys and doesnt think twice about it! She's forever callimg him, texting, or traveling 45 minutes to see him. He never comes and see's her, hardly ever calls, or texts, and when he claims he is coming up here he becomes a NO SHOW. but she still thinks nothings going on. But, anyways they never invite me to go anywhere, i wouldnt if they did but they should. That man should have enough balls to invite his girlfriends daugther. I think if your gonna get into a relationship with someone and they have kids you SHOULD get to know them. My dad on the other hand meets girls who actually want to meet me and my brother. My dad really isnt my dad see my mom was married one to my real father divorced him, married my step dad who had a son he became step-brother and step-son, she divorced him. But my real father is nothing but a lying scum bag the only thing he was good for was providing the sperm to make me. But I claim my step dad as my real father he raised me since I was four and i consider my step brother my brother. But anyways yea my dad isnt interested in dating or anything he just moved and doesnt care for meeting another woman. He says im the only woman in his life. But still the girls he does meet or dying to meet me and my brother. They buy us stuff when they've never meet us. I mean really why caint the people my mom meet do that? I dont know but the decsion i have to make is whether to continue living with my mother or live with my father who is really something. My dad lives on another state so i would have to move schools and leave the love of my life. WIth out him i would die. But my dad hsa allready stated that if i move in with him my boyfriend could come stay the weekend with us and maybe the summer. My boyfriend and I have been through alot but were stronger than ever I love him more than anything in this world we've decided we want to spend the rest of our lives together, if its ment to be that way because you know God has better plans. But if he does ill accept the fact but chris will always be my bby my air my light my everything, he will always be my life. I quess when it comes down to it i want to move in with my father the real questions are how do i tell my mom and how will i livewithout chris?